The world is full of dating advice – much of which is toxic and damaging to relationships. We approach dating advice from the perspective of Catholic teachings as they relate to the persons and the role that dating and romantic relationships play in our lives as Christians.
In this section, we’ll explore dating advice for first time dates as well as advice for those who are going on their 20th date. More importantly, we’ll look at why relationships sometimes fail and what it takes to make the work.
Dear Michele, Just saw the movie “Thanks for Sharing” with Gwyneth Paltrow, Mark Ruffalo and Tim Robbins. Yes, it’s from 2012, shows you how far behind the times I am. It’s basically about a sex addict who starts dating again. My question is this: if someone tells you she is an addict, shouldn’t you run […]
I get the sense that girls are getting tired of dieting their body into the perfect shape to get a guy’s attention. At least that’s what I was told when I turned on the radio and heard a sassy voice tell me for three minutes that it’s All About That Bass. Meghan Trainer, by the […]
Dear Michele, Why do some relationships seem to flow so naturally, while others need so much work? I am recently dating again after ending a 2 year relationship, and I don’t understand why I have (once again) found myself single. Looking back over the 2 years, it seems as if we were always struggling. When […]
The leaves are changing, the weather invigorating and there is an excitement in the air…it’s Fall! I don’t know about you, but this is my FAVORITE time of year. I think it’s because I associate it with new beginnings. Not only is it the transition time between Summer and Winter, it’s a transition time for […]
What makes a man truly good – as in noble, brave and heroic? Is it the ability to fight evil in a war, or the willingness to help others even when there’s great emotional or monetary sacrifice involved? And can a man attain greatness even when he is deeply flawed in some significant ways? Those […]
This is my first column since giving birth to our third child! In anticipation of our baby’s arrival my heart was full of joy. I finished my last work assignment, the nursery was ready, the pantry was stocked, and I was ready to enjoy this miracle God had prepared for our family. Even our girls—who […]
Disney movies, chick flicks and romance novels have led us to believe that true love doesn’t require much work. You simply have to be in the right place at the right time, look attractive, smile nice and big, and everything will fall into place as if it were meant to be. Yet the reality of […]
As a Christian guy I try to leave space for Divine Providence in my decision-making. Divine Providence is pretty much like a “best case-scenario” habit of thought. If you take initiative, put your time in and are still unsure of the results, no worries: the scenarios that’s best for you will happen. Last month’s road […]
When we are young, we dream of someday getting married. It is a goal on the list of life…college, career, marriage, home, children, retirement. We don’t contemplate the depth and meaning of marriage, we just assume it will be part of our journey. As many know, the road can sometimes be rocky and although you […]
Dear Michele, With the holidays coming up, I don’t know if I should invite my date to meet my extended family. I normally spend the holidays with my parents (who are getting close to being elderly), my siblings and their children and our aunt. However, getting everyone together can be loud and chaotic. At times, […]
