SAYING WHAT YOU MEAN & MEANING WHAT YOU SAY

Hi everyone – here’s my homily for AUGUST 19, 2012 – 20th SUNDAY IN ORDINARY TIME. The readings for today’s Mass can be found at https://usccb.org/bible/readings/081912.cfm Thanks as always for reading and your feedback. God Bless – Fr. Jim
HOMILY:

I’m sure that everyone has heard the expression “Say what you mean and mean what you say”. It’s a pretty self-explanatory sentiment that we often find gaps in on a regular basis. For example, one area for me where that seems to be a question is when I look at my calendar each week.

I see I have a Doctors appointment on Monday at 10 am. By now, I know that this routine, in and out thing is anything but. So even though it says 10:00, I kn ow by now not to have anything scheduled till after 1:00 because I’ll be sitting and waiting, to get into the exam room, waiting for the nurse to come in to tell me the “doctors running a little late”; waiting for the nurse to come back again to tell me “I’m the next person he’ll see”; waiting after he has seen me for the nurse to come back to give me a printout with my next appointment/ followup stuff and then waiting to square up my insurance/bill stuff. That 10:00 appointment is more accurately an 11:45 appointment…

Then there’s a meeting with a group that is supposed to take place every Wednesday at 8 PM. By now I’ve learned that I need to send text messages to three members of the group not only Wednesday afternoon but again around 7:30 to make sure it’s actually happening, it’s not delayed, cancelled, before I walk up the 85 steps to campus and make the 10 minute trek to the Student Center. It’s frustrating because I’ve come to learn or expect that every week is a 50/50 shot that it won’t happen…

That’s why I’m grateful for some other appointments for the week that will be the complete opposite. Like I have a person who’s coming for spiritual direction on Tuesday at 2:00 PM – who will be at my office by 1:50 PM, who’ll email the night before to confirm again… He’s a pretty reliable guy. I know I can count on him when he says he’ll be there at 2:00 – He’s there.

It seems somewhat trivial thing, but it often reveals something that’s not trivial. We often come to realize people in our life that we can be confident in their word. They have proven consistently that – they say what they mean and mean what they say. Whether it’s something routine like setting a time for an appointment or in matters that are much more important.

Like when you’re going through a crisis or a trauma. You will often have people who will say “if there’s anything I can do for you – let me know… I’ll be there.” I’m sure everyone means that on some level, but unfortunately, they are missing in action soon after. At the same time, there will be others, who will go above and beyond what any of us could have ever imagined in those moments of crisis – shining forth as true, best friends.

Reflecting on today’s Gospel you get that “Saying what you mean and meaning what you say” vibe… For the last few weeks we’ve been reading this section of the Gospel of John where Jesus has been speaking more and more about the need to consume the bread that endures for eternal life; the food that will sustain us for eternity… And now today, Jesus is even more direct saying that we need to “eat his flesh and drink his blood.”

He can’t mean what he says some argue as they assign errant symbolic or metaphorical meanings

Yet, Jesus has said this, what, 7 times in this section of John.

Well he must be talking literally or figuratively or poetically some counter.

Yet he never interrupts or corrects the “confusion” of the moment. We don’t have Jesus clarifying that this is a symbol or re-interpret this to mean anything other than what he very bluntly, shockingly has said to his followers.

So the disciples were left with the incredible realization that Jesus really does means what he says and says what he means… And why not? Jesus has never given them any reason not to trust his word. He’s preached words that have touched their hearts and souls. He’s astounded them with miracles that cannot be explained…

Yet, this call to faith, this miraculous, intimate gift that he’s offering – His very Body and Blood given to us to be consumed by us becomes very troublesome for these followers of Jesus. So much so, that in next week’s gospel, we’ll hear how this will be a moment of departure for some.

It is hard for us to believe that God means what he says and says what he means at times. Often times that’s because we approach things from our own view of the world. I want this person to find a job… that relative to be healed… that friend to be more faithful… and when things don’t happen the way that we want, we immediately assume God isn’t faithful, isn’t listening, isn’t keeping His promises to us.

Yet, Jesus keeps inviting, offering, giving His very self to us. Trying to break us out of our own self-centered view of the world to receive Him and His vision,

His view of the world.

Eat my flesh… drink my blood.. Whoever [does so] remains in me and I in him.. Just as the living Father sent me and I have life because of the Father…

So in one of those topsy-turvey, didn’t see that coming revelations – Jesus points out to us
– we say we are his followers and that we believe in Him
and Trust in Him
and Have Faith in Him.

He asks us – do we mean what we say and say what we mean????