Hi father i used to pray everyday, then i started dating a guy and began to stop praying, i am now single and trying to pray like i was before. I  pray the rosary every now and then i say a quick “our father” i want to pray every day for one hour at least but im noticing thoughts thats happen while im praying…my thoughts distract me from praying i even tell the devil this is my hour with God. Can you give me advice as to how i can pray without my mind wandering… i want to mediate and feel gods presence and the holy spirit in me. I also feel guilty at time i feel like i should be doing more ministry work but i dont know how. I already am helping wednesday evenings at my church but i do i feel God is calling me to do more, but i don’t really know how or what else i can do…what other ministries can i do? Thank you

Thanks for your great questions!   Your first question on prayer really struck a chord for me.  It made me remember how at one time in my own spiritual life,  an hour of silence before the blessed sacrament would fly by – it felt like it was only a few minutes.  It was such a […]

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  This is my homily for December 7, 2008, the Second Sunday of Advent. The readings can be found at https://www.usccb.org/nab/120708.shtml. Thanks for reading and your feedback!   HOMILY:   Think about the words “New and Improved.” How often are we enticed by those words? Just hearing them triggers some psychological effect on us. We hear them in […]

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GODS PLAN FOR YOU

  Today we celebrate a special Holy Day of Obligation – The Feast of the Immaculate Conception of the Blessed Virgin Mary. The readings for the day can be found at https://www.usccb.org/nab/120808.shtml . Thanks for reading… What are you destined to be? What is it that God wants you to do with your life? How […]

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Q & A – Dec 19

Dear Fr. Jim: I have returned to the Catholic Church after a divorce in 1995. At the time, I felt totally unworthy of participation in the liturgy and sacraments. I was raised in a very traditional Catholic family and divorce was unheard of. I still feel this way, particularly around those who have been able […]

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The word “Home” brings up many images, remembrances, emotions. Maybe Home represents a country – Ireland, Italy, the Phillippines – Maybe Home means a group of people that were and still are close to you, Grandparents, parents, brothers and sisters or other relatives. In college Home represented an escape from the trauma of exams. For […]

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