I’ve never been a fan of New Year’s celebrations. To me, it always used to seem like a silly, made-up holiday for people to go out partying and get drunk. I think part of me was also bitter that the feast of Mary, Mother of God on January 1st often gets a bit overshadowed by […]
Month: December 2017
That Awkward Moment: Even More Worst Case Scenarios in Catholic Dating (And How to Handle Them!)
Dating should be fun. Probably a big part of the reason why you have an active dating life is to add some recreation and communal enjoyment to your life. So getting bogged down in awkwardness is probably something you’d like to avoid. Here’s another look at a set of awkward moments Catholics might face in […]
How to Start a Conversation (the Catholic Way): Even More Ideas
This is an add-on to a much larger post which can be found here. A first or second date should be for getting to know one another. But let’s face it—that’s not going to happen if the two of you, or even one of you, are feeling super-awkward. What you really need are some good […]
How to Talk to your Significant Other about Pornography
When you’re in a committed relationship, a lot of tough conversations are brought up. You may discuss your hopes for a future family, or talk about significant job choices together. But even more important than the number of kids you’d like to have, or what job your significant other has is a huge—typically taboo—topic that […]
How to Curb Jealousy When All Your Friends Are Engaged
It’s the holiday season! That means it’s time for Christmas carols, baking cookies, visiting family, lighting fires in the fireplace, hanging up stockings, and seeing another friend get engaged. ‘Tis the season for popping the question, and if you’re not engaged (or dating at all), those posts that are filled with so much cheer and joy can […]
That Awkward Moment: 4 More Worst Case Scenarios in Catholic Dating (And How to Handle Them!)
Wouldn’t it be lovely if your journey to meeting that someone special were straightforward, simple, and totally embarrassment-free? In a perfect world, I have to think that’s exactly the way it would be. But unfortunately, Adam and Eve fell, and here we are in a decidedly un-perfect world—complete with dating experiences that can range from […]
Catholic Quotes: What the Saints Have to Say About Love, Dating, & Marriage
Intentional dating, authentic love, and holy relationships can be hard to live out in a culture that celebrates use, pornography, and hook-ups. New online dating services spring up regularly that promote hooking up rather than focusing on authentic love. If you’re swimming upstream in today’s current, it can be easy to feel alone, left out, […]
The Smart Love Language Lover’s Christmas Gift Guide
Dr. Gary Chapman is a world-renowned marriage counselor and author of the book The 5 Love Languages. In his book, Dr. Chapman writes that everyone has a love language, a way that they prefer to be loved. For Joseph, my husband, his love language is quality time. Mine, however, is physical touch. Joseph feels unloved when […]
Courtship or Dating – Which One is Right for You?
There is no Catholic teaching that says you should never date, or that courtship is preferred. While Holy Scripture is silent on these topics, the Catholic view is that dating should be with the goal of ending in marriage. What is Courtship? Courtship is a relationship in which a man and woman seek to determine […]
Four Strategies that will Brighten Up Your Christmas as a Single
The Christmas season is notoriously a time of year to be with those we love. So often, the picture we have in our head is a time of family gathering and traditional togetherness. But the reality is that for singles, the holidays don’t always look like this. Extended family members might be far away, and […]