Father Jim Chern
Fr. Jim Chern – was born November 1973 and raised in Clark, New Jersey (about 20 miles from New York City) and is the youngest of three sons. He graduated from DeSales University, Center Valley, PA in May of 1995 and entered the seminary for the Archdiocese of Newark later that year.

Ordained by (then) Archbishop Theodore McCarrick on May 29, 1999 at the Basilica of the Sacred Heart, Newark, NJ. his first assignment was as a parish priest at Our Lady of Lourdes Church in West Orange, NJ where he served for 7 years. In June of 2007, Archbishop John Joseph Myers, (the current Archbishop of Newark) assigned Fr. Jim to become Director of the Newman Center and Chaplain at Montclair State University in New Jersey. In addition, he is a weekly guest on “The Catholic Guy Show with Lino Rulli” heard on Sirius Satellite Radio’s The Catholic Channel. Fr. Jim is excited to work with CatholicSingles.com and was installed as their chaplain in November 2008.


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OPRAH IS NOT EQUAL TO JESUS (Shocker, isn*t it?)

Hi everyone - here*s my homily for the 33rd Sunday of Ordinary Time - Sunday November 15, 2009. The readings can be found at http://www.usccb.org/nab/111509.shtml . I appreciate you*re reading this and sharing it as well as all of your comments and feedback

God Bless- Father Jim

HOMILY:

I am not an Oprah Winfrey fan.﹛This may or may not shock you.﹛It*s nothing personal.﹛I*m not much of a talk show fan, period.﹛So I could just as easily (and accurately say) I am not a Jay Leno fan or a David Letterman fan. I can*t stand their shows.﹛ I'd much rather watch episodes of "The Office" or "Seinfeld."﹛Anyway, back to Oprah,﹛no, I*m not a fan of hers.﹛And I realize that puts me at odds with what is popular or what is considered "mainstream" in America.

﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛Because, by many standards, Oprah is the epitome of "mainstream".﹛Actually, to give credit where credit is due, she helps define what is mainstream.﹛She sticks an "O" sticker on a book, and it*s #1 in the NY Times Best Sellers' list.﹛That*s why former Vice President nominee, Sarah Palin, who was a political rival to the ticket Oprah was supporting in last year*s presidential election, will make her first﹛appearance on Oprah*s show this week in anticipation of her book*s release 每 after all, it can*t hurt.

﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛Oprah is﹛a multi-media phenomenon; she has her own radio channel on XM satellite Radio,﹛her own magazine (with her own picture on it every month 每 a little much, isn*t that?).﹛She*s been involved in TV shows, movies, broadway musicals.﹛﹛Commentator Bill O*Reilly said about her,﹛"This is a woman that came from nothing to rise up to be the most powerful woman, I think, in the world."

﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛O*Reilly has a point.﹛ After being a dominating presence in the United States, conquering every realm of media,﹛Oprah can be seen in 140 countries.﹛According to the 'Wall Street Journal', one channel in Saudi Arabia centers their entire programming on reruns of her television show because of the record number of female viewers it draws.﹛ The reason, they say is because women in that culture see Winfrey dressed modestly, telling her own story of how she overcame adversity and abuse to get where she is today.

﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛For those of us who are used to (and maybe a bit tired of) her media influence, we've probably forgotten that*s why she has captured so many people*s attention.﹛People see this successful women, speaking candidly and in some cases heroically about her own struggles﹛and how she overcame them.﹛This, in turn, taps into people*s own pains, their own struggles, their own fears and so they become optimistic 每 if she can do it, well, so can I.﹛And so they listen to her words.﹛ They buy her books, they follow her advice and endorsements. Oprah in many ways epitomizes optimism, and optimism, especially in times of adversity, sells.

﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛Fr. Willian O*Malley, who is a Jesuit priest, who is hysterically, brutally honest and real made the following observation.﹛He said, "I*ve learned the big difference between optimism and hope. Optimism is 'Annie' [that*s the little orphan red curl-headed kid] belting out, 'The sun*ll come out tomorrow! Bet yer bottom dollar there*ll be sun.' Good luck, kid. The forecast says rain for the rest of the week. Hope*s different. Hope says, 'Okay, so it*s gonna rain. We*ll get the job done anyway.' Hope says, 'It*s the last inning, and we*re down by three, but let*s go out swinging!' Unlike optimism, hope knows that quite often nice guys do finish last, but that it*s a helluva lot better to be a nice guy than to be first."

﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛Which is why Jesus is different﹛from Oprah﹛(wow, never imagined I*d be saying that sentence). Jesus isn*t selling us optimism.﹛Jesus is offering us Hope.

﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛Today*s Gospel passage has Jesus telling us how the world is going to end 每 tribulations - the sun will be darkened, the moon will not give its light, stars will be falling from the sky, the﹛powers in the heavens will be shaken - and this is some pretty scary stuff.﹛For many people, though,﹛it remains﹛a distant event﹛they don*t﹛worry about right now because they've got more frightening things to deal with.﹛The family going through a rough time.﹛A loved one﹛sick.﹛Unemployment.﹛Someone﹛they're close to﹛dying.﹛Struggling with﹛addiction.﹛ Any one of those things - or a combination of them -﹛can definitely make﹛someone feel as if the sun has truly disappeared.

﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛In the midst of those struggles, we want optimistic words.﹛We want someone to tell us﹛it*s going to be alright.﹛Everything*s going to be fine.﹛ We want things to go back to the way they were.﹛'The sun will come out, tomorrow.'﹛And﹛if it doesn*t?﹛Then what?

﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛If things don't turn out the way we want them to, we don't have to﹛give into pessimism.﹛But﹛we do need to﹛be honest.

﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛Jesus is honest; He doesn*t sugarcoat this truth. Yes, there will be tribulation and darkness - not just at the end of the world, but probably through many moments of our lives.﹛Things might get so terrible that we feel things will 'never be the same.'﹛But 每 wait for it - here are the words of hope from tonight*s Gospel 每 listen to them once again:

﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛Heaven and earth will pass away, but My words will not pass away.

﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛If we*re looking for a quick fix, these words will pass away.﹛Because Jesus isn*t promising﹛a quick fix.﹛He*s not promising to make things the way they were before, or the way we would﹛likr them to be in the future. His words are not going to get you a job tomorrow morning,﹛immediately cure your illness or miraculously pull﹛up your GPA.

﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛﹛The point it, if that*s﹛just what we*re looking for -﹛a quick fix, an increase of pleasure and a decrease in pain - ﹛we will, ultimately,﹛be disappointed in life - disappointed not just by Jesus, but by Oprah﹛and﹛any who market the 'power of positive thinking' as a religion, or tell﹛us the Gospel is all about 'prosperity' ('pie in the sky when you die, and steak on the plate while you wait').﹛The Gospel, Jesus - the Word of God - ﹛is all about Hope.﹛Hope is borne﹛of deep love and trust in the One who loved us into existence, the One who constantly lifts us up﹛after we fall,﹛the One who promises﹛us﹛- even though the road ahead of us may be difficult, will be difficult - that He will never leave us, and that His words of hope﹛will never pass away.


This week's Q & A


Q & A - Nov 12, 2009

Dear Father Jim:

My question is not related to this catholicsingle.com or to any relationship.

 

I was on my way home going a little shoping in here in downtown seattle, and I was waiting for a bus that will take me home, and suddenly one bus caught my attention regarding a very big advertisement on that side of the bus,it was in bold letters, and it says,YES VIRGINIA, THERE IS NO GOD, it came from a freedom of religion organization, from madison wi, actually i saw it on 2 bus that passed infront of me, I was stunned to see that word, and the background of that billbord is some kind of christmas , at first i thought it was kind of joke, but it was  real...

 

I am so scared of that subject to be brought to anyones attention. I email you regarding this cause I know I can trust you, I just want to have peace of mind , to tell honestly m ive been crying since i came back home from seing that billboard, I was bothered but what can i do? -- Disturbed...

 

Dear Disturbed...

 

I'm sorry this billboard/advertisement upset you so much.  I've heard about this - in fact I used it in a homiy I wrote a few months ago.  You can read it  at http://chernjam.blogspot.com/2009/04/there-probably-is-no-godso-stop.html 

 

I find the whole thing disturbing, but interesting as well.  I don't believe in Aliens or UFO's, but I don't take out billboards to try to convince other people of something I don't believe in - you get what I'm saying... I'm more interesting in sharing things I do believe in.  What do I care about people who are interested in aliens... I don't believe in them - why would I waste any time on the issue (let alone money on a billboard)

 

It's almost that these individuals don't just not believe in God - they hate God - which is beyond sad. 


What can we do? - we pray for them - and we pray for ourselves... to remain steadfast in our conviction that Jesus Christ is Lord.  Confident that the Holy Spirit can use our example and witness help to change the hardest of hearts.    A great place to look is Pauls letter to the Romans (8:38):  For I am convinced that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor present things, nor future things, nor powers, nor height, nor depth, nor ANY OTHER CREATURE WILL BE ABLE TO SEPARATE US FROM THE LOVE OF GOD IN CHRIST JESUS OUR LORD

 

God Bless, Father Jim




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