Catholic Singles

Your Personality Profile

You generally enjoy other people and you can be friendly and sociable when you put your mind to it. You have limits on how much time you want to spend with others, because the time you spend alone provides important self-care for you. You are a considerate person, most especially with your friends. Although you are aware of other's needs, you also know that it's important that others learn responsibility for themselves. When passionate about a conflict, you will stand your ground, while at other times you understand that it's okay to agree to disagree. You likely wait to have a person earn your trust, and sometimes you have to work at forgiving others. In general, you maintain a healthy need for independence, and you generally find a good balance between taking care of the needs of others and taking care of your self.

You have a natural curiosity about life, the type of person that likes to ask questions and learn about the world around you. You are equally interested in your inner feelings, another aspect of your tendency to contemplate different ideas, analyze information, and enjoy solving puzzles. You have an appreciation for the arts, as an evening listing to music, going to the museum, or talking about poetry intrigues you. You have a wide variety of interests, driven from the fact that you have an inclination to try new activities, visit new places, and try new foods. You may even appear to be unconventional to some! This also makes you appreciate diversity, as discussing others' religious or political views rarely threaten your own.

Sometimes you like to be involved in large group activities and you get energized from a crowd, and other times you would prefer a quite evening alone. You have your own personal threshold for sociability, and the time you spend alone makes you feel more ready to conquer the world. You are generally comfortable around others and you are good at adapting to social situations. You can find yourself being contemplative one day, or in the mood to be more adventurous the next. Some situations call for watching before taking action, and others call for being more outspoken. You don't mind being a leader, but you may not seek the position. When part of a couple, it's important for you to balance time spent alone with time spent together.

You know when to follow the rules and when to break them. You respect timelines and due dates, but you like being open to new ways of getting things done. You recognize the importance of being dependable, but you also understand that remaining flexible has its value. You like seeing things get done, but not at the expense of enjoying yourself along the way. For this reason, you don't like highly rigid structures, but rather environments that are organized enough to let creativity flow without falling into chaos! You may clean up your desk or your house only when others will be stopping by, although in general you enjoy being organized.

We all navigate the waters of our emotional lives, and you are a person who tends to "feel" their emotions very strongly. You are very responsive to the feelings you are having, and you don't like dealing with a lot of outside stress. You don't always understand other people's emotional reactions, so this can make you feel shy or self-conscious. You generally don't like being the center of attention, because sometimes you have a tendency to feel vulnerable or anxious. Sometimes you tend to worry or become irritable, and at other times you have difficulty tolerating frustration, so it's important to be with someone who understands you and understands how to avoid triggering your emotions.

Your faith is a personal experience for you. You may describe yourself as more spiritual than religious. You feel connected to Christ and His Church, and going to Mass on Sunday has its place in your life. You are not necessarily the one evangelizing others, as your faith is practiced in the way you treat others more than the "rules" that you follow. At times, you intend to spend more time in prayer or at ministry events, but the business of life sometimes gets in the way. You like the fact that faith is a part of your life, and you are open to sharing this as part of your relationships.


Your Ideal Partner's Personality Profile

You would be well-matched with a person who is generally agreeable and easy to get along with, a person who does not like pretentiousness. You don't want to have to argue over political opinions or what to do for an evening and holding a grudge just doesn't work well with you. You are looking for a person who easily fits into your social and ministry events, and gets along well with your friends. You would enjoy a person who is affectionate and generous with their time and their feelings. This person should make a point of taking your feelings into consideration before making decisions, and is generally considered compassionate, kind, and helpful. When in conflict, this person is able to state their thoughts and feelings in a non-hostile way, just another aspect their general optimistic personality.

Your match knows who they are, and wants to know about you. He or she has their own ways of doing things, but is open to learning about your ways too. Your match approaches life in a logical manner, but is still open to new ideas and experiences. They may have an appreciation for sophisticated tastes, but doesn't go as far as to be pretentious. They may be witty and resourceful, while remaining well-grounded. You are looking for a person who may have a variety of interests, and likes to combine both the modern and the traditional approaches to life.

Your best match strikes a good balance between time spent alone with just the two of you and time spent in group activities. You are looking for someone who enjoys being active, but doesn't want group activities to dominate the weekend. Although well-liked and easy to get to know in a crowd, this person also likes focusing on you. Your partner believes that some issues are meant to be discussed, while others should be thought over before opening up, so you will need to know when to probe for more details and when to give this person "space."

You are looking for a partner that knows where they are going and has a plan to get there. Character is high on your list of attributes, because you expect your partner to be conscientious. You want to know that your partner is dependable, both in the relationship and in getting tasks completed. Possibly a bit of a perfectionist, this person prides themselves on a job well done. Your best match should be aware of your feelings and take them into consideration before making a decision or taking action. A person who is highly impulsive would not work well for you, as you would prefer someone who is more organized and deliberate in your plans for time together.

Your perfect match would be considered emotionally stable and good at managing their emotions. This person is aware of how they feel and is good at reducing drama in their lives. This person is generally laid-back and not easily angered. You are looking for a person with an optimistic view, one who is generally satisfied with their life. A person who understands that there are good days and bad days in a relationship, a person who can concentrate on keeping the relationship on track and in balance.

You are looking for a person who takes the practice of their faith seriously. Since faith is important to you, you will be best matched with a person who understand that it should also be a significant part of the relationship. You would prefer someone who is active in ministry, but at the least must be actively participating in the Sacraments. The teachings of the church are an important item to discuss for you, because you are looking for a partner that understands the Truth in the loving guidelines for life and marriage that the Church has given us.